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The Merchant Lady & Her Suitor
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The Merchant Lady & Her Suitor

The Maternalist Quartet on Radio 786 - 100.4 fm - November 2021 - LILLAH

Discover the Untold Stories of Mecca and Lady Khadijah (AS)

Setting and Significance of Mecca:

- Dive into the historical backdrop of the grass and walls of Mecca, intertwined with the legacy of Lady Khadijah (AS).

- Explore why Mecca, far from the Fertile Crescent, became a significant trading post rather than an agricultural hub.

- Uncover the importance of Mecca’s well and its role in trade and spiritual growth.

- Understand the purpose behind every pilgrim’s journey to Mecca, experiencing its miracles and spiritual essence.

Cultural and Religious Context:

- Delve into the historical ties of Arabs and Abyssinians as opposed to the Romans and Sabaeans far from Mecca.

- Learn how Mecca, dedicated to Allah (SWT), was later contaminated by Babylonian ‘mascots’ and idol worship.

- Reflect on the hypocrisy of men practicing rituals similar to those who buried daughters while worshiping ‘goddesses’.

But then there was…

The Remarkable Lady Khadijah (AS):

- Discover the pioneering spirit of Khadijah (AS), whose (possible) premature birth, became a footnote in her legacy.

- Appreciate her true essence and how she lived up to her name, showcasing the intensity and purity of the Arabic language reflected in her name.

- Understand her feminine, receptive approach in business, using a coaxing method rather than push-and-pull tactics.

As we consider…

Hadith and Historical Impact:

- Explore Khadijah (AS)’s significant relationships, her people-centric nature, and her decency.

- Learn about the pivotal and paternal roles of Asiyah (political), Maryam (religious), and finally Khadijah (business).

- See how Khadijah (AS) influenced the world through her actions and unwavering faith.

- Understand the societal impact of men burying daughters, while the monethiests were trying to save them, including Khadijah (AS)’s monotheist cousin’s.

Which leads us to…

Faith and Social Concern:

- Discover how true faith (Iman) is independent of religion, and how religion without faith leads to hypocrisy.

- See how faith and consciousness translate into social concern, as evidenced by Khadijah (AS)’s life.

- Despite her age, Khadijah (AS) was mature and advanced, radiating a certain quality as well as her…

Marriage and Legacy:

- Reflect on how marriage at 25 was considered old, yet Khadijah (AS) showed that essence and contribution matter more than age.  (While we keep our minds open about other ages)...

- Honour Khadijah (AS) for her essence and contribution, not superficial qualities.

- Learn how she remained open and detached, maintaining her piety and experience despite…

Gender Roles and Business Acumen:

- Discover Khadijah (AS)’s involvement in trade and her business acumen.

- See how women look for potential and often take a smarter approach.

- Understand how the Prophet Muhammad (SWS) was upright, purposeful, and free from baggage.

- Learn how marriage involves dealing with the inner self and the partner's directness as we look at…

Ancestral Wisdom and Approach:

- Explore the historical communal roles of women and their patience and learning.

- Learn about cultural practices in Hawaii, where divorce rates were low, and how communal activities fostered strong bonds.

- See how the Prophet Muhammad (SWS) knew Khadijah (AS)’s sister and demonstrated empathy and people-centric approaches in business until we look at…

Proposals and Interaction: 

- Discover how Nafisa suggested marriage after observing the Prophet Muhammad (SWS)’s interest.

- Learn about the importance of balanced interaction and agreements before intimacy.

- Appreciate the Prophet Muhammad (SWS)’s utmost respect and gentlemanly conduct until we look at…

Healing and Spirituality:

- See how Khadijah (AS) demonstrated receiving and letting go, showing courage in intimacy.

- Reflect on the Prophet Muhammad (SWS)’s spiritual retreats in the cave, symbolizing focus and solace.

- Understand the balance between male and female energies in nature, as seen in the stories of Musa (AS), Maryam (AS), and Eesa (AS).

Join us on this enlightening journey through history and spirituality. Listen to our latest podcast episode to uncover the untold stories and profound insights into Mecca and the great Lady Khadijah (AS).

Tune in now and deepen your understanding!

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We delved into business and love, exploring the life of our favorite businesswoman and her beloved, our esteemed Nabi SWS. We celebrated our favourite couple 💓. Now, let's transition to...

'The Direction of Khadijah AS'

in...

(The Maternalist Quartet Series)

Finding our Path to Allah SWT through the Lives of the Greatest Women

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#iman #deen #Khadijah #directions #mecca #prophetmuhammadﷺ #qibla #love #romance #marriage #findinglove #findingtherightpartner

"Apparently Khadijah RA had a few children from previous marriages."

"As-salaamu alaykum, ladies. Can you ask Sister Lillah to repeat that statement? The man must be... to allow the woman to be 'boss' 🙂."

"When Khadija (A.S.) married the Holy Prophet SAW, she was 27 years old and not 40 years as commonly narrated."

"Interesting program. I heard an Islamic scholar in Dubai quoting a PhD student researching Bibi Khadija (A.S.). They said she was 27 years old and a virgin. Her only children were Qaseem, Tahir, and Fatima. The others attributed to her belonged to her poor sister, whom she adopted. Unfortunately, the scholar who narrated this in a lecture died a couple of years ago. He was Syed Athaar, a famous Islamic scholar from Mumbai, India. He was visiting Dubai for that specific lecture, which I happened to attend. His full name was Maulana Mirza Mohamed (known as Athaar Saheb)."

Shukran for your feedback.

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